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Hi I'm Sarah!

When I was in my twenties, I felt hopeless when relationship after relationship seemed to fail.

It was always the same story.

I was in love but I always found I eventually wanted to connect with other people. I would try to push this desire down, but that didn't work; I started feeling resentful, I cheated, I ended my relationships, left feeling confused and even more lost.

Finally, after my last monogamous relationship ended in 2016, I learned, there was another way.

I could relate openly.

Since then, I’ve made a lot of mistakes but eventually found a loving partner, who I now have a beautiful child with. We are non-monogamous and I’m so happy now I can have love, intimacy, and even a family and still be totally myself in my relationship. 

Join me on my journey.

Learn what I learn in real time as I write about my non-monogamous life in Berlin.